.: Welcome To My World. My Thoughts. :.

(ps: he = man/woman)

only when u've really experienced it for urself, den u'll understand wad is really abt knowg another person thoroughly.

at certain points in time, u would haf probably tot u knew a person for a long time and really understood his character. sometimes u would even wanna believe tt e person is still who he was when u 1st experienced in tt frenship.

overtime, different ppl meet wif different circumstances which might really haf a great impact in mouldg them to become who they are now. in such cases, past experiences will no longer apply. however, do u ever haf times whr u juz haf tt knowg inside ur heart tt dis person isnt liddat and tt dere's a real him on the inside which needs to be rediscovered?

well, i would say i do. and i juz experienced it. it was pretty hard to take it when dis person means so much to u as a fren. esp when all u wanted to do was to give feedbacks, hopg to be a true fren who dares to speak up for e truth, so tt it can help e person wif his flaws.

it's juz so true to say tt it takes alot of courage to be a true fren bcoz u might even break e frenship by sayg sthg which e person does not wanna listen cuz it hurts to hear. and it hurts even more bcoz u noe e frenship is impt but yet u dun wanna see him in tt state. probably u juz wanna help but if he doesnt appreciate it, since u've done ur part, den e rest juz leave it to him to decide for himself.

of cuz while hopg for e best, dere's nthg much u can do if he refuses to accept it. pretty true tt no one is perfect and u cant please everyone. but why limit urself if u could change to become someone whom another 1 person would be pleased wif? i juz tink tt e difference which u can bring to e 1 person by ur willgness to change will definitely play a big part in gaing urself wif even more true and strong frenships.

seriously, wads e rite way to go? for me, i would rather stand up for e truth though i noe u hafta pay a price for e truth. tts one of my principle in life. another impt lesson learnt in e midst of a heartache.

Labels: the truth hurts but i believe it helps too

leen
3:16 PM